Family Mediation
Mediation is a dynamic, structured, interactive process where a neutral third party assists disputing parties in resolving conflict through the use of specialized communication and negotiation techniques. All participants in mediation are encouraged to actively participate in the process. Mediation is a “party-centered” process in that it is focused primarily upon the needs, rights, and interests of the 3rd party.
The mediator uses a wide variety of techniques to guide the process in a constructive direction and to help the parties find their optimal solution. A mediator is facilitative in that she/he manages the interaction between parties and facilitates open communication. Mediation is also evaluative in that the mediator analyzes issues and relevant norms (“reality-testing”), while refraining from providing prescriptive advice to the parties (e.g., “You should do….”).
We specialize in family mediation for adoptions, guardianships, parenting plans, separations and divorces. We also provide mediation and facilitate discussions with large groups of professionals in businesses. Whether it is a partnership in business, or in one’s family life. We enjoy being a part of the peace process.
Returning client? Schedule your mediation appointment here.
Frequently Asked Questions
What can you mediate?
Adoption – Divorce – Disagreements – Child Custody – Child Support – Domestic Partnerships – Parenting Plans – Parental Visitation – Spousal Support – Property Division – Business Partnerships – Work Place Disputes. We are focused on your business and family – now and in the future!
What's the difference between talking to you and my best friend?
The difference is between someone who can do something, and someone who has the training and experience to do that same thing professionally. A mental health professional can help you approach your situation in a new way– teach you new skills, gain different perspectives, listen to you without judgment or expectations, and help you listen to yourself. Furthermore, therapy is completely confidential. You won’t have to worry about others “knowing my business.” Lastly, if your situation provokes a great deal of negative emotion, if you’ve been confiding in a friend or family member, there is the risk that once you are feeling better you could start avoiding that person so you aren’t reminded of this difficult time in your life.
Can you explain divorce mediation?
Mediation is a process in which a neutral Mediator helps two or more people come to an agreement together voluntarily. Today, many people use mediation to complete their adoptions, disagreements, divorce, and parenting plan.
DIVORCE WITHOUT COURT: In Oregon a divorce is a lawsuit. Nonetheless, in many cases, the mediation process can eliminate the parties need to ever appear in court.
NEUTRAL: Mediation is a neutral process. The Mediator does not pick sides or have a bias favor of either party.
ANIMOSITY IS OKAY: It is okay if you are not getting along with the other person right now. Ask the Mediator about responsible ways to invite the other person to mediation.
You work with a TRAINED MEDIATOR: Laura Rosal has a background in mental health services and has been trained in mediation. Specializing in adoption, guardianships, and divorce.
HOW IT WORKS: Generally, the mediator facilitates communication and understanding, helps the parties articulate their goals and their true interests, and employs creative problem solving skills to come to a point of resolution.
ATTORNEYS: It is okay if you already have a lawyer or if you would like to consult with one.
How much will mediation cost and how long will it take?
In the case of a divorce or separation mediation, we usually mediate a plan for anywhere from $750-$3,500, depending on the complexity of the situation. From start to finish, this process generally takes 6-8 weeks for completion.
What agencies are you affiliated with?
We work with all individuals and have contracts with Oregon DHS child welfare and Oregon Vocational Rehabilitation. We are affiliated with the Learning Disabilities of America (Oregon branch). We network with many local schools, churches and support groups.
Have you ever worked with high-conflict and child welfare cases?
Yes, for the past twenty plus years I have been working with child welfare and high-conflict cases. We don’t work for Child Welfare, but we do work alongside families who are involved with DHS. Are goal is to provide parent education, mediation and coaching services in order to reunify families and provide support during life transitions.
How
we work:
We are committed to providing you with the best possible care. Payment for services is due prior to the time of service or net upon receipt of invoice via email unless you’ve made other arrangements.
Appointments can be rescheduled up to 24 hours in advance but must be canceled 48 hours before the scheduled session to avoid charge.
No-show fees are charged for appointments canceled without a 24-hour advanced notice. The no-show fee is equivalent to your session fee. The cost for services is $225 per hour session. Sessions longer than 1 hour will be charged in increments of .25 hour at the regular hourly rate.
Phone Calls and Documentation: Phone calls and write-ups/documentation will be charged at the regular hourly rate of $225 per hour in increments of .25 hours.
Note: Initial sessions may run more than 1 hour. You’ll be invoiced for the actual time. Discernment/Relationship coaching default is 90 minutes. If the session runs less you’ll be invoiced for the actual time in session.